Binasag na ni Miss Universe 2018 Catriona Gray ang kanyang katahimikan hinggil sa dahilan ng breakup nila ng dating fiance na si Sam Milby noong 2024.
Sa panayam niya sa vlog ni Karen Davila, nag-open-up ang beauty queen-actress sa nangyari sa kanilang relasyon.
She revealed na matapos ang ilang buwan after the proposal ay na-realize umano ni Sam na hindi pa ito ready magpakasal.
“There was a point in our relationship where I think he just realized that he wasn’t ready to take it to the stage of commitment that we were on, because he had proposed.
“And then, a few months later, (he) realized that hindi pala siya ready,” pagtatapat ni Catriona.
“So, that was very hurtful for me, and I was really blindsided at the time,” dagdag niya.
Sinubukan daw niyang unawain si Sam at i-work out ang kanilang relasyon dahil mahal niya ito.
“So, I was willing to just… siguro, when you love someone, you’re willing to understand them.
“Pero it got to a point na, at that age, and what we’ve been through, kung hindi ka pa rin sure, I think that’s an answer already,” pahayag niya.
Aminado si Catriona na hindi naging madali para sa kanya na tanggapin ang naging desisyon ng fiancé but in the end ay na-realize rin niya na piliin niya ang kanyang sarili.
“It was the hardest thing to do, but I realized that I needed to choose myself in that moment, because I’ve given so much in trying to adjust [like] ako na maggi-give dito, I’ll try to be understanding.
“I don’t look down on myself at that moment because I did it because I love the person.But at the end of the day, it’s not the relationship that is giving way,” aniya.
Inamin ng beauty queen na gusto niya ring magpakasal at maging ina kaya nais niya ng partner na makakasama niya sa future.
“As a woman, I wanna have a family. I wanna get married, and I’d love to be a mom someday.
“So, I really want a partner who values me and sees that future too. Ayokong mag-wait around for someone to figure out,” she said.
Inamin din ni Catriona na talagang nawasak siya sa nangyari subalit marami rin naman daw siyang natutunan.
“I think that heartbreak taught me a lot because I was really shattered.
“And to navigate that publicly was really hard too, coz I didn’t want to talk about it kasi ang sakit niya, eh.
“And to everyone who kept asking, like, ‘Ano ang nangyari, bakit hindi kayo nag-post together, what’s happening?’ I was so broken and I was just, like, ‘Please, let me grieve.’
“But obviously now, like, I’m so much better,” pagtatapat niya.
Hindi rin niya ikinaila na sumailalim pa siya sa therapy that time para lang maka-move on at mag-heal.
“I went to therapy for two years. I became so close with my core group — my friends, my family — in a way that I don’t think I had before. So it’s just been a really healing journey. I feel like I came back home to myself. So the version of me now, I’m the healthiest I’ve ever been.
“My relationships with the people around me are the richest they’ve ever been. And so, in a way, I see the blessing and the hurt. And a year, two years ago, I couldn’t even say that,” aniya.
When asked kung hopeful pa rin ba siya sa pag-ibig, sagot ni Catriona,
“Absolutely. I definitely believe in love. I think if you’ve had a bad experience with a guy or two, you shouldn’t allow that to reframe or change how you see love.”
Paliwanag pa niya, “’Coz I think, love is beautiful. And I feel like God’s will for us is to find someone to be married with and to have love with. So if it’s not yet good, God’s not yet finished.”
Inamin din ng beauty queen/actress that she’s dating now at non-sbowbiz ang guy.
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