Sunod-sunod na naman ang pagbira ni Ellen Adarna sa estranged husband na si Derek Ramsay.
Sa kanyang Instagram Story posts, ibinulgar ni Ellen na hindi good provider ang aktor at hindi umano naibibigay ang pangangailangan ng kanilang anak na si Lily.
“Since October last year, he hasn’t given,” saad ni Ellen.
Sey pa niya, “If he doesn’t give anything, no Lily, that’s simple.”
At first ay okay lang daw sa kanya kung hindi nagbibigay ng sustento si Derek dahil kaya naman niyang buhayin ang anak pero ang pamilya raw niya ang nagpayo sa kanya na mag-set siya ng rule na kung hindi ito magbibigay ay hindi nito makakasama ang anak.
Sinabi raw niya ito kay Derek at doon pa lang nagbigay ng credit card ang aktor na may P50,000 credit limit.
May netizen na nagtanong kung bakit P20,000 a month lang ang hinihingi niyang sustento kay John Lloyd Cruz, ama ng panganay niyang si Elias.
Ayon sa dating aktres, ang hinihingi nga lang daw niya ay P10,000 pero si Lloydie raw ang nag-insist ng doblehin ito.
“In fairness talaga kay JL, wala akong masabi. Hindi na kailangang pagsabihan,” aniya.
Pero wag na raw silang intrigahin pa dahil mas okay sila ngayon as co-parents kay Elias.
Tsika pa niya tungkol kay Lloydie, “When he found out that we moved houses, of course, si Elias, anak niya, kasama, you know what, he offered like ‘Len, kung anuman kailangan n’yo, just let me know, baka makatulong kami. O, ‘di ba? Nagkusa,” pagbabahagi niya.
Sa tanong kung kino-consider ba niyang patawarin si Derek to save their family, sagot ni Ellen, “Forgiveness is only for the people who deserve it and who ask for it and really change but I am not Mother Teresa ‘day. I’m not there yet.”
Bago ang Q&A with the fans ay nagbigay na rin ng mahabang rant si Ellen tungkol sa sustento ni Derek.
“Last month i told his asst. ‘no sustento, no Lily.’
That simple,” I am not demanding anything beyond what is fair – but I will not allow a father to live comfortably just cooling his balls while having little to no contribution to his child — because he gets to see her almost everyday.
“Only after I called him out did he give a credit card — two weeks ago — with a P50,000 credit limit. That amount covers only 55.80% of the actual breakdown of Lianas expenses that I clearly presented. Lets be accurate about that.
“And lets also correct this narrative. neither he nor his mother has ever paid for my yayas or household staff. Not now. Not even when we were married. I paid for my own staff. I have 5 nannies and 2 are for liana. They only paid for one nanny for liana.
“I paid for my own groceries. And they did not provide a house for me — i did that myself. Lets not rewrite history.
“So please, lets stop being delusional and stop branding someone as a ‘good provider’ when the numbers and reality say otherwise. A real provider doesnt wait to be called out. He gives willingly.
He takes initiative. He doesnt rely on words, flexing, or public image.
“Thats it pancit. Period!” pahayag ni Ellen.
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